Are you in a bad relationship? How do you know?

You know – I fondly remember the good memories despite the fact that in our 3 years together we had some intense and bad tumultuous times together. It just didn’t last even though we tried. To say our relationship was anxiety filled and disorderly was a understatement.

The problems all seemed to to tie in to trust issues and jealousy. Jealous of me – jealousy of her – you know – the usual. We just did not trust that the other wouldn’t hook up and have fun elsewhere.

But jealousy alone does not make a relationship bad. You know, actually jealousy made for some intense and pleasurable “make up sex” but it was the combination of things that made the relationship eventually go bad and get us broken up.

A bad relationship is one that makes living together or with another a very difficult process. Good relationships are the opposite. They make living together easy.

If you encounter too many obstackles to just stay with your loved one – well – that is most likely a bad relationship.

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